hi, thanks for the information, very helpful. it's pretty much what i thought. basically just trying to sound out some writers without actually asking the question directly (which was probably obvious).
i've seen the essay chat site but like all sites you have no idea who is ligitimate and who is not so thought i look here as well which seems to have slightly lessened my fears. i know that you are always going to be taking chance unless you know the writer, but it seems there are a few people who are popping up on a number of sites who i will now research further.
so once again, thanks.