Blackmail case update: school's decision
Hi everyone, I just wanted to provide an update about my blackmail case. The blackmailers reached out to the university TOO EARLY in their process and basically ruined any chances of getting money from me. The university did initiate a case against me however when they read the threatening emails and texts, saw the photoshopped emails, saw the made-up 'case numbers', etc. they decided to drop it because they realized that the scammers would win if the school did anything to me. They want to remove the FEAR out of the student's mind so that they stop paying these scammers. I was let off with a "don't do this again" warning and the school sent out a PSA telling everyone about scams like this targeted at students.
My tips:
1) Maintain your cool. Do not write emails/or call your school in an attempt to tell your side of the story, let the school approach you (if they even do that).
2) Leverage your school student advocacy group and legal team for students
3) DO NOT PAY THE BLACKMAILER
4) Keep evidence of chats, threatening messages to show your school. High chances are they will be more concerned about your safety and mental health.
5) Use forums like this to find legitimate writers
Feel free to reply to this post if you are in a similar situation and need guidance. I cannot guarantee a similar outcome but I'll try my best to provide a perspective in light of my recent experience
P.S: Another thing that helped me and this is entirely a personal decision. I told everyone I was scared of telling about this: my parents, friends, employer. I had heard that scammers sometimes also reach out to relatives, especially if it is a younger person like me who is dependent on parents. Once you tell everyone, the scammer just gains more enemies. I know this can be hard but I choose to look at it as a character-strengthening situation and just did it!