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gflowers   
Dec 21, 2023

Punish scammersI've written about my friend here a couple times who was driven to suicide by blackmailers. He now employs an interesting strategy. Knowing that most of these scammers are from Muslim and/or other backward and homophobic cultures, and usually males, he starts to act gay and makes sexual advances towards them.

Nothing inappropriate or graphic. Just flirty stuff. Man , do they back off!

He very subtly incorporates some very otherwise graphic and specific fetishes like golden showers (peeing on your partner for their pleasure) or taking ***** on their faces.

Sometimes he will fake empathize with them because their "mothers are cocaine *******".

They've just blocked him at this point lol. He's gone from wanting to overdose to playing with them.

Ever since his university took his side over the scammers he's been empowered to fight back.
gflowers   
Oct 24, 2023

Update: suicidal blackmailed friend



I made a post long ago about my friend who was suicidal because of blackmail and extortion. In his case, he actually used parts of the essay they did for him so they had leverage.

He has bounced back extremely well. He talked to the university once the scammers contacted them and the university shut it down on the spot and said "okay don't do it again and take care of yourself".

The scammers kept contacting him anyway and every single time they did, he sent them this (see photo attached)

I told him again and again not to do this but it worked! They've left him alone. Just thought I'd add some humor to this forum and update everyone.
gflowers   
Feb 16, 2023

Could you resend it? It appears blurred. Glad the scammers are off your back! Their emails and language were so scary, just their tone ruined my day.
gflowers   
Feb 14, 2023

What is the status on the blackmail? Have they tried to contact you? If you look at some previous posts here you'll see that I was also blackmailed recently so wanted to know. In my case they have backed off
gflowers   
Jan 30, 2023

Hi there! I believe I am qualified to reply here because I've been in a similar situation. Immediately contact legal services at your school. Cut off all contact with the blackmailer, send them to your spambox. If it is not a university email, then just delete the email address itself. This is an emotional game so it's best you keep yourself together. They did contact my university and I did have to go through the dishonesty proceedings, however I think that in this case the blackmailers were new to the game and reported me too early thus losing their chance to get anything my from me. Let's hope the blackmailers you are dealing with are experienced and are bluffing. They may even send you fake emails that look like they are from the university. Hold your cool. My advice here is to explain all this to a lawyer at your school or hire one. You'll take a hit financially but it is much better than living in the state of mind that you are. Your lawyer will be aware of the laws in your country/state and will know how to navigate the educational system. This scam is popular in Australia and educators know about it but it is still unheard of at reputable institutions in Europe and the US so if anything your institution may even be shocked if they find out what is happening to you. That's what happened to me. I did edit my essay so my risk of getting in trouble was not as high, however what happened was that my university focused more on the existence of the scam itself than my actions. They are thinking of all this at a systems level, not individual like we do. Our relationship with them is simple, it's ONE university. But if you look at it from their perspective, they have to consider issues at the level of thousands of students.

I went on a rant there. To summarize, contact your schools legal advocacy or student council group. Good luck and please let us know what happens.
gflowers   
Jan 24, 2023

Blackmail case update: school's decision



Hi everyone, I just wanted to provide an update about my blackmail case. The blackmailers reached out to the university TOO EARLY in their process and basically ruined any chances of getting money from me. The university did initiate a case against me however when they read the threatening emails and texts, saw the photoshopped emails, saw the made-up 'case numbers', etc. they decided to drop it because they realized that the scammers would win if the school did anything to me. They want to remove the FEAR out of the student's mind so that they stop paying these scammers. I was let off with a "don't do this again" warning and the school sent out a PSA telling everyone about scams like this targeted at students.

My tips:

1) Maintain your cool. Do not write emails/or call your school in an attempt to tell your side of the story, let the school approach you (if they even do that).

2) Leverage your school student advocacy group and legal team for students

3) DO NOT PAY THE BLACKMAILER

4) Keep evidence of chats, threatening messages to show your school. High chances are they will be more concerned about your safety and mental health.

5) Use forums like this to find legitimate writers

Feel free to reply to this post if you are in a similar situation and need guidance. I cannot guarantee a similar outcome but I'll try my best to provide a perspective in light of my recent experience

P.S: Another thing that helped me and this is entirely a personal decision. I told everyone I was scared of telling about this: my parents, friends, employer. I had heard that scammers sometimes also reach out to relatives, especially if it is a younger person like me who is dependent on parents. Once you tell everyone, the scammer just gains more enemies. I know this can be hard but I choose to look at it as a character-strengthening situation and just did it!
gflowers   
Jan 23, 2023

Thank you for your post, that really helps me and other students here. Thank you also for your prompt reply!! I googled this security alert and it said it's common and can happen when any app/service we're connected to has a data breach. Here's the thing, I've blocked them and I don't read their messages anymore but they don't know this. I'm too scared to open my spam box because their language is so threatening and I have other stuff going on in my personal life so I just don't want to deal with the added anxiety. If I cancel my email and change my phone number, won't they get frustrated and start harassing me on LinkedIn or other online profiles like Facebook? Sometimes it feels like it's a good thing that they have this open line of communication that keeps them busy. Kind of like giving a kid a toy phone. What do you think?
gflowers   
Jan 23, 2023

I did turn in the paper but with some changes. I say they made a mistake because now they can't blackmail me! My lawyer has a good relationship with the university and has told them about this scam already so the university will not be responding to the scammer. They have also issued an alert to all students telling them about this scam. Do you really think I should change my phone number too? I have it in so many places it feels like a huge huge task haha, but I'd do it for my own safety any day.
gflowers   
Jan 23, 2023

Hi, I was blackmailed for sometime by scammers who also approached my university. They made a huge mistake by doing this because my university is now aware and is dealing with me and is ignoring them. I too, have sent them to my spam box and do not open their emails. Today, I got an alert by CreditWise in my bank app that said that my email address was found on the dark web but password was not exposed. I immediately unlinked my email address from that bank account and changed the password on it. Could this be unrelated to the scammers or is it definitely them trying to hack into my email? Should I just delete that entire email address and all data associated with it? Or am I okay after these password changes? Thank you!
gflowers   
Dec 23, 2022

@noted that is so so kind of you. Your words are relieving. Once my account is older (tomorrow) , may I email you? There's a lot that cannot be shared online in case the scammer is reading these
gflowers   
Dec 23, 2022

I have been reading posts on Reddit as well as here about this scam and have a couple friends who confided in me a couple years ago that they were being blackmailed. One of them had just attended his fathers funeral and needed help with a test (apparently the prof was not flexible). It was wrong but in a moment of desperation he got some help and they've scared the living daylights out of him. He was suicidal for many days, afraid that exposure would shame his family, his mother especially. Please, stop. You're playing with lives of fellow human beings. They aren't rich just because they live in Australia or US. Most students survive on cheap sandwiches and anything else they can get on discount at the store. Please leave students alone, don't be the reason that a young life was taken
gflowers   
Dec 23, 2022

I would be careful to ensure that any affiliation such as this does not get you caught up in any academic dishonesty proceedings that convict you of abetting. Also, make sure that any payment made from them to you is secure, do not give out your bank details. If you are an international student you are not permitted to work off campus (at least in the US).
gflowers   
Dec 23, 2022

@noted Could they do email spoofing and make the sender email address look like the actual email address of a real person from the school ?